Joint Press Statement on the Bilateral Meeting between President of the People’s Republic of China and President of the Republic of Indonesia
Indonesia's official announcement also didn't mention President Widodo's wife joining his trip.

Xi's hair is white in a few shots.
Real but the video was provided by Chinese media that Xi's hair is also black in some video shots. https://youtu.be/ET8xd-sIICQ
Jokowi Temui Xi Jinping, Apa Saja Hasilnya?
Fake CCTV video
習近平和大淫婦麗媛以往和不同外國政要出席過許多晚宴,這幅圖也可以是經過電腦修改的P圖。
