During my study at the university in the US, I also met many males classmates. Like many young girls who would pay attention to guys. But I only had a crush on a guy named "Jude", I can't even spell his last name now. I am not sure about his nationality, he is not a white man.
I was too shy to tell him at that time. Nothing had happened!
I didn't know much about Christianity and I didn't read Bible until 2019!
This is not a coincidence!